Sorry Grace


Dear Grace Millane

This is a horrible article to write. It is horrible by virtue of the circumstances leading to it, which should have never happened.

So, your killer has been convicted by a jury that took 5 hours to reach a verdict. I can only admire their stamina going through that and am not surprised that they have been stood down from jury duty for the next 7 years. They would have seen some horrible evidence of a cowardly brutal murder committed by a person who it appears was a prolific liar.

I can only admire the police that handled the case, who would have had the god awful task of telling your family that they had lost their daughter in what should have been a fantastic once in a life time trip. What an awful job to have to do.

I am sorry Grace. I am sorry that my country was where you took your last breath in what would have been absolutely horrendous circumstances. You should have been safe here. You should have been able to enjoy all that Aotearoa had to offer and you appeared to be having a magnificent time doing exactly that. You met a man who you thought you could have some intimacy with and who appeared to be getting on well with. You should have been able to leave that room and enjoy your 22nd birthday and the hopefully many more that would have followed.

I can only hope as do my fellow New Zealanders that your killer gets the due sentence. I hope that the New Zealand justice system gives your parents a sense of closure on what without doubt would have been the most shocking, horrible experience they and the rest of the Millane family should never have had. It will never bring you back from the dead. It will never make your parents, and siblings lives what they would have been with their vivacious daughter, sister around to cause hilarity, mischief and rain down love.

I am sorry that you will never get to live the full and happy life you so richly deserved to, because of one man’s cowardly act.

Sorry Grace. Except in the eyes of your killer, it really honestly was not meant to be like this. You were meant to be able to go home or continue to travel after finishing in New Zealand happy with what you accomplished, full of awesome memories of the places you went, things you did and the people you met.

You were meant to be able to find a job, a place to live, someone who genuinely loves you and be able to love back. You were meant to be able to be so much more than this, a horrible part of the New Zealand homicide statistics for 2018. The only stat you really should have been was another visitor to these shore who had a great time and went away happy and content.

But because of this cowardly act, you are not.

I am sorry Grace.

Fly with the angels.

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